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Safety: staying anonymous and knowing the red flags

Anonymous does not mean unmoderated, and it does not mean you can switch off. These articles are the practical side of safety on a stranger-chat site: the signs that a conversation is heading somewhere bad, what to do the moment it does, what a site like this can technically see about you, and what it deliberately does not keep.

They describe HearMe's own rules where they matter, an under-18 safety check on every message, reports read by a person, bans that hold across nickname changes, but the habits they teach apply on any site: never move a first conversation to your phone number, never send money or a code to someone you have just met, and use Report and Block without feeling you need a reason.

The community guidelines below are the rules themselves; the articles are how to use them.

The guideCommunity guidelines: the rules, and what a report does